By Sumaiya Rabeya
We are all judgmental to some extent, we can’t help but form opinions about other people. We have the tendency to point out things that don’t quite add up, whether we’re trying to figure out the morality of someone else’s actions or if the rumors flying around hold any truth. Muslim scholars view unjust judgement, such as backbiting and gossiping as inherent human weaknesses, a test bestowed by Allah (SWT) as part of our fitrah (innate nature).
Various factors, like upbringing, cultural norms, personal experiences, and religious knowledge, influence people’s behaviors. It may come naturally to some people not to judge quickly and accept others, but these traits may be more challenging to cultivate for others. Jumping to conclusions and passing hasty judgments on other people is not acceptable in Islam. Islam encourages Muslims of both sexes to avoid judging others and instead, work on developing qualities like empathy, compassion, and understanding.
Below are some essential aspects related to this teaching:
- Focus on Self-Reflection
Islam teaches its followers to focus inward rather than constantly finding fault with others. It’s important to note that when we all stand before Allah (SWT), each of us will only be held responsible for our own deeds, not anyone else’s. Therefore, it’s encouraged to prioritize personal responsibility and our own character development.
In Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11), Allah (SWT) says: “O you who have believed, let not a people ridicule [another] people; perhaps they may be better than them; nor let women ridicule [other] women; perhaps they may be better than them.”
- Avoid Hypocrisy
When someone judges or criticizes others, they should remember that we are all imperfect, and pointing out their flaws while ignoring their own, makes them hypocritical, attempting to elevate themselves above others. Islam encourages believers to avoid hypocrisy and focus on self-improvement rather than scrutinizing others.
In Surah Al-Hujurat (49:12), Allah says, “O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumptions are sinful. And do not spy on or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when he’s dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah; indeed, Allah is Accepting of Repentance and Merciful.”
- Give the Benefit of the Doubt
Muslims are encouraged to give others the benefit of the doubt and to think positively about them. Even if, let’s say, the points are true, as Muslims, it is our responsibility to always assume the best of the people.
Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, “Beware of suspicion, for suspicion is the worst of false tales. Do not look for the other’s faults, and do not spy, and do not be jealous of one another, and do not desert (cut your relationship with) one another, and do not hate one another; and O Allah’s worshipers! Be brothers, as Allah has ordered you!” (Sahih Bukhari)
And, finally….
- Leave Judgment to Allah (SWT)
In Surah An-Najm (53:32), Allah says, “So leave them to converse vainly and amuse themselves until they meet their Day, which they are promised.”
This verse serves as a reminder to believers that it is not their responsibility to pass final judgement on others. Instead, they should let people go about their lives and conversations, knowing that everyone will be accountable for their deeds on the Day of Judgment. On that day, Allah (SWT) will carefully evaluate everyone’s actions, intentions, and beliefs with His perfect wisdom and justice. Ultimately, it’s only up to HIM (SWT) to pass judgement.
So, the concept of leaving judgement to Allah (SWT) is deeply ingrained within our belief system as Muslims. It’s a sobering reminder that no one but Allah, The All-Knowing (Al-Aleem) and The All-Seeing (Al-Basseer), can see into another person’s heart and know their every thought and motive.
At heart, this principle tells people to strive for spiritual excellence. We all mess up sometimes and nobody’s perfect. Therefore, let us not be overly critical of one another and try to be more understanding, supportive, and helpful instead.
About The Author:
Sumaiya Rabeya is a researcher and content writer. She is the co-founder of a Malaysia-based media-production company. Sumaiya is also a community volunteer, actively working on various projects related to Islamic dawah, social engagement and women. Born in 1989, she graduated with a degree in Politics and International Relations and is currently pursuing her Ph.D. in Gender Studies. Moreover, she has been working as a media content writer for over a decade. As a Bengali young mother, she feels responsible in creatively contributing to society.